मेरी चूत चाटना और सांस न लेना या मैं तुम्हें गेंदों में लात मारूंगा

This is not primarily about rude. It is mainly about the infinite trust towards others to give up control. Your brain is in a dopy state that increases your sense of happiness. The control we have over breathing does not get taken away by choking or strangling in this case.